REASONS THEY ARE MAD AT YOU

 Listen up,


Some people are mad at you because you are not suffering the way they expected you to. 


They envisioned you collapsing under the weight of your challenges, letting despair consume you, or allowing your hardships to define your entire existence—but when you rise above them, when you face adversity with courage and grace, it unsettles them. 


They wanted your pain to mirror their own, to feel validated by seeing you struggle, to know that life had “broken” you just as it has broken them. 


When you refuse to conform to their expectations, when you move forward despite difficulties, they may respond with anger, criticism, or even subtle attempts to undermine your progress.


This reaction is rarely about you at all. It is often a reflection of their own insecurities, envy, or inability to cope with their circumstances. 


They are unsettled because your resilience reminds them of what they themselves cannot achieve, or because your growth challenges the narrative they have built about suffering and failure. 


Some may try to shame you for your strength, accuse you of being “too positive” or “unrealistic,” or make you feel guilty for experiencing peace or joy while they remain trapped in bitterness or resentment. 


Others may silently seethe, expecting that life’s hardships should humble everyone equally, and when it doesn’t, it frustrates them.


Yet your journey is yours alone. You are allowed to heal at your own pace, to reclaim your happiness, and to thrive in ways that others cannot comprehend. 


You are not obligated to fit into anyone else’s expectations of suffering or despair. Their anger, disappointment, or judgment says far more about their fears, limitations, and unmet needs than it ever could about your life, your choices, or your worth. 


Every step you take toward self-love, empowerment, and growth is a declaration of your strength, an affirmation that you will not be defined by pain alone, and a quiet reminder that resilience can exist even in the face of cruelty, misunderstanding, or envy. 


Embrace your power unapologetically, for the life you are building is yours—and theirs is not your responsibility.


Greater you.


#TruthEmpowers 

AOG OYEYEMI DESKS

SOGEM






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