NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO THINKS MARRIAGE IS JUST A MOOD

 NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO THINKS MARRIAGE  IS JUST A MOOD

Listen up, Men 

Never Marry a Woman Who Doesn’t Know What Marriage Is

Let’s stop pretending.

The problem isn’t that modern women don’t want marriage.

It’s that they want marriage without knowing what it actually is.

They want the wedding dress, the hashtags, the honeymoon, and the photo album—

but not the work.

Not the sacrifice.

Not the reality.

And if you marry a woman who doesn’t understand what marriage is…

you’re not building a home.

You’re funding a fantasy.

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1. She Thinks “Forever” Means Until She’s Bored

To her, “forever” isn’t a lifetime commitment.

It’s a season.

A phase.

A weekend she didn’t get upset with you.

The moment marriage stops being fun?

She’s mentally drafting her exit speech.

Because she was in love with the idea of marriage—

not the reality of it.

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2. She Measures Marriage by What She Gets—Not What She Gives

She doesn’t see marriage as a covenant.

She sees it as a subscription service.

She expects you to deliver her needs on demand:

the bills, the lifestyle, the attention, the constant validation.

But when it’s her turn to give?

She calls it “too much” or “unreasonable.”

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3. She Uses Her Parents’ Marriage as an Excuse for Ignorance

She’ll tell you her mother was “too submissive”

or her father “wasn’t man enough.”

So now, she has decided that her marriage will be nothing like theirs.

But instead of learning what actually works,

she’s building her entire relationship on rebellion.

She’s not avoiding their mistakes—

she’s avoiding the truth.

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4. She Thinks Marriage Is Just Parties, Sex, and Instagram Moments

She’s in it for the fun,

the vacation photos,

the “soft life” aesthetic.

She doesn’t know about the 3 AM hospital visits.

The nights you sit in silence after an argument.

The bills that keep coming whether you’re in love or not.

To her, marriage is a movie.

To you, it’s real life.

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5. She Has No Blueprint—And Refuses to Learn

A wise woman studies marriage before entering it.

She listens to elders.

She learns from the couples who have actually made it 30, 40, 50 years.

But the modern woman says,

“My marriage will be different.”

Translation:

“I’ll do it my way, even if my way has never worked for anyone.”

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Final Word

Marriage is not for the woman who doesn’t know what marriage is.

Because once the music stops,

once the guests go home,

once the photos fade,

you’ll be left with someone who thinks “forever” was just a mood.

And a man who marries a woman like that…

isn’t walking into a covenant.

He’s signing up for a countdown.

Be careful, bro.

#TruthHurts